Thomas Joseph Incorvaia, 86, of Hyde Park, died on Saturday, January 15, 2022, at Vassar Brothers Hospital in Poughkeepsie, NY with his loving family at his side. Tom was the son of the late Joseph Incorvaia and Katherine (Camillaccio) Incorvaia. Tom grew up in Poughkeepsie, New York and graduated from Poughkeepsie High School where he enjoyed playing on the ​school's basketball team. He then proudly served his country in the United States Army before becoming a plastics engineer for IBM in Poughkeepsie, NY for 38 years. In 1968, Tom married Eugenia (Jean) Lepore, of Poughkeepsie, NY and enjoyed 53 years of marriage. Tom and his wife loved to venture out, trying many different area restaurants and going dancing at social clubs with friends. Tom is a past president of the Italian Center of Poughkeepsie and spent many years as an active member, as well as being a member of the Hyde Park Moose Club, The Elks Club and The American Legion in Poughkeepsie. He also took great pride in being a lifelong blood donor and his time volunteering at Castle Point VA Medical Center in Wappingers Falls, NY. After retiring from IBM, Tom worked in the Hyde Park Assessor's office for many years. Tom loved gardening and also enjoyed a weekly game of golf with some friends at several of the local golf courses. Tom and Jean spent many family vacations traveling to the Jersey Shore, Florida, Maine and going on cruises. Along with his wife he is survived by his two daughters, Michelle McCarthy and her husband Tom, of Great Barrington, MA; Donna Schafer and husband Dave, of Trumbull, CT; four grandchildren, Ryan, Casey, and Andrew McCarthy, and Dana Schafer. He is also survived by his niece Denise Treacy, and many close family and friends. Tom was predeceased by his brother Frank Incorvaia of Middletown, NY and nephew Brian Incorvaia of Queens, NY. Calling hours will be from 11am to 12 noon, on Monday January 24th, at Sweet's Funeral Home, Rte. 9 Hyde Park, NY 12538. In lieu of flowers, Tom's family respectfully request memorial donations to your favorite charity. A service will take place at noon for immediate family. Burial will follow at the family plot in St. Peter's Cemetery in Poughkeepsie. Arrangements are under the direction of Sweet's Funeral Home, Inc., Rte. 9, Hyde Park. To send an online condolence, or for directions, please visit www.sweetsfuneralhome.com